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    May 29, 2008

    May Taste This!

    Lucy with her purple bow Our families gathered in Springfield to celebrate Clayton's graduation, and it was quite a party! Lucy even wore a bow!  At least the festivities lasted longer than her hairstyle.  We celebrated with Honey Baked Ham, good strong coffee, and lots of dessert!  The event was culminated as we sat on the edge of our bleachers listening to Clayton give the commencement address at the Kickapoo High School graduation ceremony.  We were proud of him and grateful to have our families with us. Alex Haley once said: "In every conceivable manner, the family is a link to our past, and a bridge to our future."


    That couldn't have been more clear than when my dad pulled up in our driveway, unpacked the trunk, and brought in my great aunt's silver tea service.  It is old, covered with embossed grapes, and holds many childhood memories.  Auntie used to let me have imaginary tea parties with the graceful pieces when I visited her during those sizzling Atlanta summers.  Now that I'm grown up, I will have to have some real tea parties with the charming service that now sits on my grandmother's buffet in my own dining room.  What a treasure!

    "There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea..." Ahh, the lovely opening to the novel I am reading for the second time--The Portrait of a Lady by Henry James.  James is considered by some critics to be one of the greatest novelists of modern times.   

    The Portrait of a Lady is my very favorite James novel, and it's a perfect summer read. It was first published as a serial in The Atlantic Monthly and Macmillan's Magazine in 1880, and then as a book in 1881.  The Portrait of a Lady is a well-spun story that revolves around "our heroine" Isabel Archer.  It deeply explores themes of personal freedom, independence, betrayal, and romance. I love his insight, his phrasing, and his characters.  You must give this book a taste test!

    My mom and I did a little shopping while she was here for graduation.   We bought two gifts to commemorate this special time.  First, we both got defusers filled with lavender oil. We decided that as the aroma fills our homes, which are so far apart, the fragrance will remind us of being together. We also bought a lovely Star Jasmine bush for my back porch.  It is lush and lovely, and the fragrance will remind me of Clayton's graduation. As the bush blossoms and matures, it will be a constant reminder of how my son is growing and blossoming into a vibrant young man.  It will prompt me to reminisce and pray each time I water it, tend to it, and enjoy its fragrance this summer. I hope your summer is a time of growth, relaxation, and peace. 
     
    In the words of Henry James, "Summer afternoon, summer afternoon; to me, those have always been the two most beautiful words in the English language."

    So give these things a taste test:

    1.  Enjoy a family heirloom.  Don't just admire it--use it and enjoy it!

    2.  The Portrait of a Lady by Henry James

    3.  Defuser

    4.  Star Jasmine

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